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What is love? It is like a birthday cake. There is, in the birthday cake, the cake itself and it's decoration.
Same way also love can be divided into two parts: to attitude love and to feeling love. Attitude love means that you have positive attitude to him/her that you love. Even so positive that you do not see anything negative in him/her. You are blind to his/her faults and defects. If somebody notice you about those things you keep it as slander with bad willing or envy.
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 When the attitude love gets mature it agrees that "my sweetheart" has some faults and defects but if the positive attitude remains he/she stands the things with forgiveness because it's a fact that everybody of us have his/her own faults and bad habits.
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Feeling love is the thing we all are familiar with. Fallen in love walks like in dream, his/her head in clouds. Everything is so wonderful, especially everything that have something to do with that one he/she loves.
Feeling love is like cream and decorations on a birthday cake. It's not the birthday cake itself. Birthday cake is below the cream and decorations. Attitude love is the birthday cake, feeling love is the decorations on the cake.
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